Funeral Tuesday

[Traci66]

Don't know how I'm going to get through it, daughter still not speaking to me after my granddaughter died when I was supposed to be looking after her

[choux]

Traci, your pain is immeasureable. I am so very sorry for the situation you now are in. I cannot put myself in your shoes but my heart goes out to you.

Maybe, just maybe, Harley-Rae was only meant to be with you for a short while and during that time brought so much love, joy and happiness to all who loved her. I pray for you to have the strength to see through this coming week.

I will keep you in prayers, Traci.

[horselady]

Traci, can I ask why you were looking after your granddaughter, why was your daughter not there? I imagine she is feeling guilt for not being there and is lashing out at you. Neither of you are to blame. I am so sad for you all. xx

[jennyjoan]

I am so so sorry - please don't blame yourself.

[marval]

I am so sad to hear this, I cannot imagine your pain.

You are not to blame for Harley-Rae's death, your daughter is grieving which makes her feel bad.

I hope you can get together in your grief, and that any anger she has will disappear.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

[ummmm]

Such tragic news. My sincere condolences.

[bobbie22]

Dear Traci. I am so so sorry things have turned out like this for you both. No one is to blame, and I think that at some stage your daughter will realise this. I will be thinking of you on the day. With love and best wishes from me x

[Peter Pedant]

Terrible - so sorry to hear this .

[Lie-in King]

((Traci)) - I can only offer my very best wishes to you & your family in this heartbreaking situation. I hope the funeral passes smoothly for you all. My sincere condolences once again. x

[spathiphyllum]

I can understand your daughters distress. It must be one of the hardest ordeals to ever go through for you both. But I think the pain of this time is affecting her judgement towards yourself. From reading i do not hold you accountable by any means and I would have thought that there would be some sympathy towards yourself. What a tragic situation for anyone to go through.

Hopefully after some time your daughter can see how it was also not your fault. But so close to the event still I imagine she will blame anyone.

I'm so sorry for you Traci I hope tomorrow goes OK for you

[naomi24]

Terrible for you, Traci. My heart goes out to you. x

[hereIam]

Oh my goodness, you poor soul. What on earth can I say to make you feel better, because nothing I say will. My thoughts and prayers are with you my dear. PLEASE don't be hard on yourself, your daughter is in a very bad place and one day I'm certain she will be ready to talk. Be strong and hold on till then xxx

[puzzled54]

May you find the strength to get through today, and peace

[Theland]

Everybody on here will be holding you in their thoughts today.
Come back later after the service and just let it all out to your many caring ABer friends. X

[rowanwitch]

Thinking of you today, it will be gutwrenchingly hard but so many of us will be with you in spirit.

[calmck]

Prayers and thoughts with you all today

[Old_Geezer]

Good luck with it all traci. Likely you'll cope better than you anticipated, and it will then be part of the grieving process put behind you.

[TonyV]

Traci just hope all goes well for you xxx

[anneasquith]

Traci, prayers and thoughts to you and your family especially today .

[Mamyalynne]

♥

[retrocop]

I am thinking of you today. I am so very sad and sorry for you all.