I have a bet every day, Bazile, and i have to say, hand on heart, that if it weren't for the losses, the wins wouldn't be as special. So, for me, i guess it's the taking part. Though the occasional win does make taking part that much easier, both financially and from a confidence aspect:-)
Sqad.....the winners of the last pub quiz got two bottles of wine... my team came second and won the £300.....the annoyed winners certainly remember us..... ;-)
Baz....I am very competitive......but don't fret about losing....x
Both. If I do anything I usually try my best to be the absolute best at it I can be and to win if I can, but if someone beats me / is better than me at something then I'm just happy for them, it doesn't eat me up in a super competitive 'must win at all costs' sort of way, I can just throw away any importance it had as soon as I haven't won.