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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Krissy04, I think you are thinking along my lines too! I know I should tell people sooner rather than later, but I've told men before and they've said that was ok, but give them a few months, and the hormones get the better of them! Men also assume that I'll want to get married - to them?! I'd like to window shop before I buy!!
Thanxs for advice , and Landie, if I get a tee shirt printed up 'no sex please, iIm fussy' would this work!!
I think it depends a little on your age, if you're younger, say under 20 then i think it's perfectly acceptable not to have to make a statement about it the first time you meet them. If you're in your mid 20's onwards, i think you've got to mention it sooner rather than later.
Can't blame men for this one either - if i started dating a man and he didn't want sex before marriage, i'd really want to know up front. I'm not saying that would change my mind about seeing him, but it is a part of my life and a concideration.
Totally agree that it is entirely your choice though, and good on you for being strong enough not to be pressured into something you don't want to do.