I Want Babies

[NoMercy]

Congratulations to 4get on expecting her and her partner's much wanted baby. :) x

I've gone so brood lately. I really want to be a mum and wonder if it's ever going to happen. :(

[vodkancoke]

Oh NoM, I wonder the same myself. I've become very broody recently. :( xx

[NoMercy]

*Broody* for crying out loud

[joggerjayne]

Nooooo, HB ... don't do it !!

[bednobs]

how old are you both?

[rockyracoon]

Right then, we need to find two nice men for you two. Now where do we start?

[vodkancoke]

I will be 36 in June.

[sunny-dave]

You rang, Milady ?

[excelsior-1]

may i be of assistance?

[NoMercy]

Funny we're the same age, hun. xx

[DTCwordfan]

All the bachelors are lining up......do divorcees count?

[DTCwordfan]

you home, NoM - if so, how was the trip....

[vakayu]

Be very careful what you wish for!!!

[bednobs]

at 36 you have a good 10 years of child bearing left i reckon. it's really not helpful for people to say platitudes like that i know. I also know this isn't all that helpful but just to give you hope at 36 i'd been trying for babies for 9 years and was trying to come to terms with the fact it wasn't going to happen, when i unexpectedly found myself PG. I am now 38 and have had 3 babies. Things can change v quickly.
It makes you cross about all that worrying about getting pg when you were younger though, no?

[NoMercy]

Ya, got home, DT. Just been to pub but got kicked out early as they wanted to close. x

[vodkancoke]

Thanks bednobs. I always imagined I would be married with kiddies by the time I was 28 (I had it all planned! lol) but it didn't pan out that way. Maybe it's just not meant to be for me, and maybe I am just meant to be the most amazing Auntie instead! lol ;)

[Barmaid]

Although I've wanted kids for years, it is only since I met Mr BM that I thought he would be the right person to be the father. Sadly with my issues (I was told at 19 I couldn't have kids) and the fact he has had the snip it will probably never happen.

There isn't a day goes by that I don't lament this. :(

[flump1]

Hi would you like three teenagers and a twenty year old all going on aged about 4/5 to practice with ??? I will pay postage .

[NoMercy]

Bloody hell, BM, I'm so sorry.

My half sister was told she'd never have kids. She's now got two sons. x

[Purple_Popple]

It's difficult finding a decent breeder !

[Barmaid]

It's OK NoM, you kind of get used to it. We both want children (he has 2 from a previous relationship, he wanted lots but his ex only wanted 2 and made him have the snip), but its all a bit too late for us realistically. I looked into adopting and made a few enquiries but with our age and the fact that I am the main earner (not him) the SWs will not even consider us. So sad. We could offer a child a brilliant home and he might be an idiot, but he is a great dad.