Celibacy.

[kat-kin]

Since my marriage ended 3 years ago I've been celibate by choice. I've met a few nice men but they all wanted sex after one or two dates. I'm not a dried up old crone at 65 I just don't want/need sex anymore. Any views on this please?

[boxtops]

LOL - they are my close friends and family, that's why I know their arrangements :-)

[woofgang]

blimey. Not even my close friends and family knew my arrangements.

[askyourgran]

It must be difficult to find or even trust someone to care about if you find yourself single when you are older. I agree that not everyone wants or needs sex later in life, but who knows it could be that that special person may come along that 'floats your boat' and you find yourself physically attracted to him.