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I have ignored over the last year about 15 phonecalls and about 10 emails. Now I am getting photos of my "friend's" brother, grandchildren from England.
I don't want any communication with this friend who lives in England but in spite of the many hints she is still trying to contact me.
I think this will go on endlessly and now I know I will be forced to deal with it face to face with it as in actually telling her that I want the friendship over. I honestly don't think I should have to do this that the hints should be strong enough.
What do you think. I am writing this with nerves in my stomach as I know this friend will not take this lying down. Thanks
I don't want any communication with this friend who lives in England but in spite of the many hints she is still trying to contact me.
I think this will go on endlessly and now I know I will be forced to deal with it face to face with it as in actually telling her that I want the friendship over. I honestly don't think I should have to do this that the hints should be strong enough.
What do you think. I am writing this with nerves in my stomach as I know this friend will not take this lying down. Thanks
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.It is not the actual phone calls or actual emails - I know she wants to keep the contact here as she likes to get free bed and breakfast and evening meal here now and again and I never want to that to happen ever again.
I have saw the "light" - - she was home a few weeks ago by caravan and contacted me twice by email and suggested coming here and I said No - wont be here, another email - she would see me next day - No - wont be here.
Now more emails -
I have saw the "light" - - she was home a few weeks ago by caravan and contacted me twice by email and suggested coming here and I said No - wont be here, another email - she would see me next day - No - wont be here.
Now more emails -
Tambo - she leaves voice-messages - ring me - ring me - I don't - and I don't return emails but she actually sent me another email this morning with photos of grandchild. I am NOT interested.
Last week sent me a photo of her Alzheimers's brother who was lying in a bed in a vegetable-like state. My God. I nearly died when that came through.
Last week sent me a photo of her Alzheimers's brother who was lying in a bed in a vegetable-like state. My God. I nearly died when that came through.
not really Anne - it's over tobh it was never on - I have looked at our friendship - and this is awful saying but I was never keen on her from the beginning - it just fell into this awful trap (for me). I have never been to her house - now she has invited me - but I refuse to go - her kids when they used to come - never spoke to me or engaged with me ever. Her husband - just said - please and thanks - and that would be for 3 days. Dont want to feel a mug anymore - no -do want this friendship to be well and truly over.
You know when some of your favourite friends were coming - I used to get excited and in a flurry knowing we were going to have some great laughs and fun and carry-on and story-telling of many capers.
No when the time is near for this friend - I would have gone into a depression and not speak and not be socially active until she was gone. Isn't that awful
No when the time is near for this friend - I would have gone into a depression and not speak and not be socially active until she was gone. Isn't that awful