Ladies....why Do Most Women Find Tall Men Sexually Attractive?

[Dantheman98]

Whenever I hear women (mainly young ones) get asked what they find sexually attractive in men, nearly all of them say a man who is over 6ft tall. As I am not a woman myself, why is it that most women sexually desire tall men? Thanks

[Dantheman98]

Pat- yeah I get that there are some women like yourself who are not all that concerned with height, however, what I’m asking is why is it that most young women round my age love tall men? Regardless of personality I’m just talking about physicality in this question

[1ozzy]

When I was that age Dantheman the internet didn't exist!
You had to meet young ladies face to face.
Much more difficult to ***

[melv16]

A 6'6'' friend of mine always had plenty of girl friends. He has dated some real stunners including a model who was on the front cover of Vogue. He eventually married a beauty queen, who ran off with a millionaire. All of his partners had one thing in common...they were as dull as ditch water. Nice to look at but sooo boring!

[mallyh]

in my dating days i liked to wear high heels and smooching on the dance floor with a tall guy was much nicer (i'm 5ft 71/2)

[1ozzy]

Wouldn't have been hard to find a tall guy Mally;-/

[Dantheman98]

1ozzy- exactly! Back in your day young women were different. My grandparents who are 80 tell me that in their day if a girl had a baby out of wedlock she would be placed in an institution. Now young women are sleeping around with loads of guys (I’ve been to university so I have seen that this is true) and they openly admit it like they are proud. But one thing the girls used to talk about at uni was not the guys personality, but how physically attractive he was

[pat2604]

I am now only 5'6" and feel very short against my husband who is now about 5'11" and I hate it!! And I can't wear high heels any more.

[Dantheman98]

Mally- why was it nicer?

[davebro]

(I'm 186cm.)

[1ozzy]

No they weren't Dantheman!
Get over yourself.

[pat2604]

Times have changed. Looks seem to be more important these days. Much more media influence.

[Dantheman98]

1ozzy- I think it’s you who needs to get over yourself. You’re just after an argument. If you think young women these days are the same as they used to be back in the 1960s then you are very delusional. Have you ever been on a university campus within the last 10 years? I guarantee you haven’t, so how do you have any clue on what young women get up to these days? Women in my grandparents day were monogamous, nowadays most women have had a plethora of sexual partners by the time they reach 30

[Dantheman98]

Both my grandmothers were married with children in their early twenties, and my granddads were the only men they’d been with. That’s simply not the case anymore for the most part

[lankeela]

At 5' 2" soaking wet I have never been attracted to really tall men - nor really short ones either! I do like a nice looking 'bit of rough' rather than a smart suited and booted type, as that would not fit in with my life style and a sense of humour is essential. Personally I think anyone who relies on dating sites must be desperate - there are enough people out there if you bother to look and physical attraction is only brief, as once you get to know someone you either like them or not. I often think of all the horrible men I have known and shudder to think that I might get paired with one like that on a dating site should I be desperate enough to use one. But having said all that I don't feel the need to always have a man in tow - I'm quite happy on my own unlike a friend who has gone through a shed load of unsuitable men because she could not bear to be single. I don't believe 'most' women think how you think they think!

[burlyshirley]

Being tall myself, I prefer tall men. Well I did, I don't bother any more now !! I once, only once dated a smaller man than me and whilst I found him very attractive and fancied the pants of him, I couldn't get over feeling that I needed to bend down to be on his level when we were walking along together and yes, I felt self conscious. It didn't last too long.

[Dantheman98]

Lankeela- but dating sites aren’t a thing for ‘desperate’ people anymore, they are very common in today’s society, there are millions of users all across the world on apps such as tinder, bumble etc. I don’t know how old you are, but I’m guessing you’re not in your twenties, or maybe you are, and just one of the rare ones. Physical attraction is extremely important to most women, how do I know this? Well because when I was at uni, all of the tall good looking guys were the ones who these girls were sleeping with, some of the girls openly boasting that they’d had....’bum fun’ with these guys. They wouldn’t be boasting about that if the guy wasn’t a looker

[Dantheman98]

https://www.insider.com/what-men-and-women-want-casual-partners-2019-11?amp

This research shows what women and men desire for short term sexual partners

[davebro]

Dan - not sure if you've said but - how tall are you?

[Dantheman98]

Dave - I’m 5ft 11. There has never been a problem with my height I was just asking a civil question as to why most young women like tall men and it’s seemed to upset a couple of people lol

[davebro]

5-11 is a good height to be IMV. If you ever go to museums that have costume displays it's amazing how tiny people were 100+ years ago. Even soldier types - real tough guys - were quite small.