Ladies....why Do Most Women Find Tall Men Sexually Attractive?

[Dantheman98]

Whenever I hear women (mainly young ones) get asked what they find sexually attractive in men, nearly all of them say a man who is over 6ft tall. As I am not a woman myself, why is it that most women sexually desire tall men? Thanks

[Dantheman98]

Dave- yeah I’m
perfectly comfortable at my height. It’s just that I was wondering what the reason is as to why a lot of women, like the research shows on the link, want a very tall man when it comes to casual sex

[davebro]

maybe they need someone to change a lightbulb?

[mallyh]

with a tall guy when dancing you can nestle into their shoulder with a short guy i had to stoop .mr mally is 6ft 1 .......really weird i replied to this but it never came up so perhaps it is on another post by mistake lol x

[Dantheman98]

Mally- so when it comes to casual sex, why is it that a lot of women like men 6ft odd? But are not quite as picky when it comes to a relationship? Is it like a sexual turn on for them or something?

[mallyh]

don't know i was a good girl , just know i liked tall guys :-)

[Dantheman98]

Mally- so when you say you like tall guys, is that because their physicality turns you on more? Because they appear more dominant and assertive than smaller men?

[mallyh]

i honestly don't know why i was drawn to taller men ,more protective i suppose but it wasn't only mr mallys height that attracted me .

[pat2604]

I can honestly say that lots of women and girls like their menfolk to be taller because they liked to feel protected and it makes them feel more feminine. I have never felt like that. I have never liked men who treat me any different because I am female. I hate being cosseted!!

[pat2604]

I am in total agreement with Lankeela at 9.21

An independent lady!!

[lankeela]

Seems to me you are obsessed with talking about casual sex - makes me wonder why that should be? I know very few women of any age that openly talk about casual sex - maybe in a small group of friends on a night out - but its not something most women discuss openly on a general basis. I think maybe you should start to consider dating women for other reasons (that's if any women want to date you).

[Dantheman98]

Lankeela- well actually for your information I don’t agree with casual sex as I am a Christian. I am just stating what I heard and what I have been told by females that I have had discussions with about this topic. A lot of girls are very open about sex these days as society doesn’t see it as much of a taboo like it used to be. If you look on YouTube you’ll see a lot of videos of girls talking on Tik tok about how many guys they’ve been with and what their criteria is for their partners appearance etc

[pat2604]

Dantheman. I'm trying to think who you were on here before!? ;0). Your threads are very familiar - Looks, sex and Christianity. I suggest you get out more and forget about dating sites and girls on YouTube!! Get out and get some experience in the real world.

[Dantheman98]

Pat- when people say get out to meet women, where exactly? And what do you say to a woman you might see in public? Whenever I’ve seen men cold approaching women it always looks a bit cringy and embarrassing

[jackthehat]

Anecdotal evidence is no evidence....whether overheard on campus or watched on TikTok or Youtube.
I think you would have trouble proving nearly all women find tall men attractive.
And from there, you are all over the place.....casual sex, pre-marital sex and with an unattractive base-note that women 'these days' are promiscuous.

[lankeela]

Dan stop being desperate - wait for the right one to find you. A lad I work with kept going on dates with girls from a dating app - all weirdos - then he was queing for fish and chips and got talking to a girl next to him and now they are engaged!

[Dantheman98]

Ok so say I come across a girl I like in person, how do I take it from just friendly chit chat to dating? Without it sounding cringy

[pat2604]

Dan, I didn't mean to say get out just to search for girls. I never went out to meet men. I went out with friends, male and female that I met by socialising. My husband was one of a group of friends. We knew each other as friends and eventually that turned into a partnership. There perhaps was a spark there. I dated lots of people I met, but casual sex wasn't on the agenda. Lankeela again is right. You sound desperate. Just relax. Forget online dating and YouTube girls. My son actually met his wife online, but not on a dating site. They shared a love of music and eventually agreed to meet up. No photos were involved!!

[Dantheman98]

Pat- the trouble is my social circle is pretty much non existent. I have one friend my own age who is in the exact same position as me female wise so it’s not like he could introduce me to anyone. My other friend is 38 and he only knows women round his age. So obviously me just walking around trying to talk to people would maybe come across a bit creepy

[Dantheman98]

Oh and I forgot to say, before covid I did actually approach four different girls in the gym. To break the ice I simply approached and just asked if I was ok to join in on the machine she was using (that’s common practice in gyms). 3 out of the four girls all looked at me like a rabbit caught in headlights, stuttered and said ‘oh I’m finished you can have it’ before walking off even though she’d literally only just gone on it. The other girl said I could join in but she then stood a good five feet away and went on her phone, giving a clear signal she was not interested in talking. I don’t think many young women my age like guys they don’t know walking up talking to them anymore, due to the media painting men in a bad predatory light

[Atheist]

Dan...; Maybe you do come across as a bit creepy because you are nervous and not acting 'naturally'. Leaving women to one side for the moment, how do you relate to men in normal social situations? Do you find you are usually welcomed and one of the lads? And how do you relate to men and women in mixed groups? Are you just one of the guys?