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i have been with my husband for nearly 7 years married for 3 and half on sunday he told me he felt nothing for me he loves me but not in love with me he says hes been trying for the last 12 months and nothing has changed . i keep saying now i understand how he feels maybe we shud give it another go weve never had any big problems like this b4 and i dont want to throw away nearly 7 years i love him so much and am still in love with him i want to make it work . he keeps saying hes been trying for the last 12 months but now hes told me how he feels maybe things can work i just wish he told me 12 months ago and it wouldnt of got to this stage what does everyone think . Im so heartbroken and one minute im ok next min im in tears
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no none of have anybody we cant afford for one of us to live seperate for a bit and if we sell now we have to repay to the local council �15,000 l so have to wait 12 months long story to do with right to buy . I just dont understand how that he cant give it one last go now i know how he feels and we can do things different etc
he said he feels nothing for you, but loves you, even though he's not 'in love' with you?
How old is he?!
He sounds a bit of a selfish confused git to me, not to mention very contradictory - still loving you is NOT the same as feeling nothing.
Have you considered Relate or some such similar couples counselling?
How old is he?!
He sounds a bit of a selfish confused git to me, not to mention very contradictory - still loving you is NOT the same as feeling nothing.
Have you considered Relate or some such similar couples counselling?
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thanks vibrasphere and i love him with all my heart NONE OF US HAVE ANYBODY ELSE . no nothing like this has happened before weve had our ups and downs like anyone but not him telling me this . I just wished when he started feeling like this he told me and we could of worked from there but instead he wanted to try by himself and try and keep me happy I love him with all my heart and i thought we were going to be together forever when we cuddle he says like its not the same as it used to feel but to me its always been the same
Oooooooops sorry, spring-clean the house, get all washing & ironing done. Fresh bed-linen. Kids bedded early, scrumptious 3course meal ready on dressed table. Bath, sexy Ann Summers underwear, hair/nails immaculate, killer heels ready for when he comes home.
No response from him? Grab the goolies & Bobbit! Then kick him out!
No response from him? Grab the goolies & Bobbit! Then kick him out!
Hi leeandjoanne - every marriage goes through a rough patch and everybody changes throughout life - I think feelings about someone can also change. When first married there is lust/love, and if you are really lucky then this will continue throughout married life. I think if everybody was honest this does die down after a while, when love, mutual respect and friendship takes over.
Perhaps your hubby is feeling confused about these type of feelings. He says he still loves you (which is a good sign !)
Its hard to give concrete advice on here without knowing you and him personally.
Its not always easy to make a marriage work and if you have both come to the end of the line, then it would make sense to go your separate ways now.
Perhaps your hubby is feeling confused about these type of feelings. He says he still loves you (which is a good sign !)
Its hard to give concrete advice on here without knowing you and him personally.
Its not always easy to make a marriage work and if you have both come to the end of the line, then it would make sense to go your separate ways now.
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