Of the death of my son. I have tried to think positive thoughts all day. The good times we had, holidays, birthdays, christmas etc. I have now poured my self a drink. Mic is in bed. I will not wallow. I keep telling my self this, but I'm afraid I'm not winning. Cheer me up people.
Try not to wallow! Ask yourself what he would think if he saw you so sad.
He'd probably kick your butt!
Remember him at his best, raise a glass and celebrate that you had him once and will meet him again (I believe that anyway).
Crickey Jeza, that is awful. There can really be nothing worse than losing a child. You are allowed to wallow. Remember the love, laughter and smiles x
I add mine too, Jeza - not easy to come up with a joke or something like that. I thought about contributing a verse or two but then remembered the beloved Spike Milligan.
"I thought I'd begin by reading a poem by Shakespeare, but then I thought, why should I? He never reads any of mine."
That's so sad for you .Losing a child is awful .My husbands brother died very young aged 26 ,he would be have been 70 this year .I don't think my dear old MiL ever got over it really .You don't expect your children to go before you .
Have a good wallow and think of the happy times ,tomorrow is another day xxx
Thinking of you both Jeza; have a good wallow if you need to. If I've missed you now this evening, sleep tight and have a better day tomorrow. ((( Love and hugs for now)))
Jeza, you say that you toasted him wherever he is, if you read your post just above you, have answered this yourself,you know where he is, he will always be in your heart. X
People that we love and lose never go away, they stay in our hearts and our memories,
happy times, sad times, funny times, they are all yours forever, enjoy them, and be happy when you think about him.
Love Sparkles. X X
Jeza I could not find the words to express how sorry I am so I chose this song it was written by someone who also lost someone so very dear to them.
N x