How do you take your mind off someone?

[ChocolatChip]

My boyfriend has gone away for a week to america. We've only been together about a month (although we've been close for about 3 year) And I miss him rotten.
I don't have many friends. And I feel a bit lonely. Any ideas?

[sara3]

why don't you spend time planning something special for when he gets back?

[ChocolatChip]

I've already done it! I've arranged for us to go out to two different gigs and clubs. And my birthday plans are organised along with that. (He's a chef and works akward hours.)
We spend almost every evening together anyway. I think thats why I'm feeling lonely, since I'd normally be with him right now.

[dustinmyeye]

sometimes its nice to miss someone because it makes it feel even better when you see them again.

[ChocolatChip]

Thanks dustinmyeye. It's true I guess.
But I'd much prefer to have him back right now :)

[legend_mark9]

Dusty usually just stops posting to me .Then forgets

[dustinmyeye]

but that would suggest that im missing you legend and that aint true :P


chocolate chip, absense makes the heart grow fonder, you say that you have only been together a month well maybe this will help define your relationship.

[~max~]

Aw CC! A week is nothing pet! It's so great to be in the first stage of a relationship eh, when you can't be without each other! :O)
Go out with mates, go shopping, buy some fun things for when he is back (undies, funny books, a new dress...How about putting up a nice spice rack in your kitchen for his benefit, since he's a chef?). Lots of things you can do! for now though, keep chatting to people online, and before you know it, it'll be tomorrow! lol

[topogigo]

I too am missing my significant other, the time will pass and be history soon.
Learn from this separation and try to have better communication next time you are apart, web cams are wonderful.