Whilst one should not say ill of the departed I have to say that we personally Baths, went to her home a few times, trips out for coffee, etc.
When she became ill sadly her personality changed.
She did not vote in the brexit referendum but posted on facebook, " I see the racists have won "
Sparkly - she realised she was dying and was undergoing some very drastic treatment as you know. I think you can imagine this focused her thoughts on what was important and what was not.
Wouldn't it be better to forget what happened years ago and go forward. We all have our faults and we all think differently, but it's not healthy to bear grudges for years. You shouldn't have brought this up Sparky.