Tell me.

[Sqad]

[Sqad]

I keep pressing the wrong t1t.

Now, what did you do (female) to get beaten up by your male partner/ husband?

[ummmm]

Ok I will..

[pericat]

Waiting with baited breath !!!

[redcrx]

honestly, it wasnt me, it was them down there
V

[mccfluff]

try pressing the right one

[pericat]

Are you a masochist sqad

[David Black]

Is that an Italian chef?

[Sqad]

peri....I think I must be.......I am wondering what a woman does or doesn't do, that deserves being hit....that's all.

[ummmm]

The first time he hit me my baby was 5 weeks old and I think he thought he now had control of me. He didn't show signs of this before. I had just put the baby down and he'd come in from the pub. He started having a pop at me, can't remember what about, so I said 'I'm not listening to this' and went to walk out the room....so he ran and punched me in the face....and broke my cheek bone.

It's as basic as that....

It's def control...I had a tiny baby and a business with him and I think he thought I'd never leave.

[caththecrazy]

Some men don't need an excuse

Not that my hubby hits me but my dad was always hitting my mum - if he'd had a bad day at work, if it rained and he got wet and once I remember his car being scratched as he left it outside on the road - her fault for not putting it in the garage ...

[Sqad]

ummmm.....bloody hell, that is awful, I do not know what else to say.

[pericat]

Sqad I am not rising to the bait but change your terminology before someone puts a hit on you please

[Sqad]

peri.....what bait are you talking about?.......my post is a serious one.

[ummmm]

It's ok sqad....We had a few more incidents before me and the company hatched a plan. Put it this way...I walked away with a house :-)

Oh....he also couldn't sack me from the company so had to carry on paying me £900 a week for a year....lol

That's the only place to hurt someone like him.

[caththecrazy]

ummmmm you're right it is control - they do because they think they have control over you and also I think you start believing all the stuff they tell you.

Glad you're out of it.

My mum then married another guy exactly the same

If Mike so much as lifted his hand to attempt to hit me - that would be it

[ummmm]

The company accountant....I meant to say.

[pericat]

Ok - 'what did YOU do' - you prob didn't mean it like that. I have no personal experience of it but I think it's the person who does the beating not the person they beat and what they do !

[Sqad]

peri...................I wasn't implying that it was the females fault........yes, yes, badly worded. Get the hit man (woman).

ummmm.......I am truly shocked.