dodgy uncles

[Melissabendy]

why are uncles so odd...my uncle just came over and dropped his dog, which im pet-setting for and he totally eye balled my chest and im wearing a thick cardigan he thought i didnt see but i did and then always asks for a kiss on the cheek...even around my bf....

[sara3]

how old are you? how old is he?

[Melissabendy]

19, 51

[DTCwordfan]

so is he 49 or 50 if he was born in 19,51

[Dris]

She's 19 and he is 51.
Kinda struggling to get my head around your thread to be honest.
Youre an adult -he is and adult and unless he has been leery before when your were a child why are you asking us what do -its obvious.
Now if this were a vulnerable child/younster I would have answered differently .......

[DTCwordfan]

Agree Dris, if she is uncomfortable she can say something to him or mention it to her parents. What is wrong with a kiss on the cheek - std practive for most families and some of us gor French style - bis-bis on both cheeks.

[joeluke]

Boyfriends needs to have quiet word with your pervy Uncle

Or better still a quiet word with your Auntie

[Dris]

How is he pervy ?.Thick cardy and she reckons he eyeballed her chest.Gawd forbid any random man she meets in the street/pub then.
Not buying into this at all and if its kosher be careful with your accusations.

[joeluke]

Dris, how many of us would be happy if our brother/brother in law was eyeing up our daughters tits?

[hc4361]

Some men automatically look in the chest area, they can't help themselves and don't know they're doing it.

[mccfluff]

i more concerned about the dog dropping, was it from a height, is the dog ok :-)

[SUSPECT]

Joe she is 19 << im wearing a thick cardigan >>

Top rack is bound to look bigger

[joeluke]

Point being he's her Uncle

How many of us blokes have eyed up our niece's tits?

I'd have serious worries about myself if I ever did

[Postdog]

It's a man thing, part of our make up. Just because we can't help looking doesn't mean anything nasty, it just means we are following natural instincts which we have no control over. Control comes in what we do, or don't do, next.

[237SJ]

But he`s her uncle, a possibly blood relative. Would you say the same thing if it was her father?

[SUSPECT]

Joe you may want to look at her BF most males look at young ladies, Each to their own.

[yelenots]

Looking at Melissabendy previous posts, she has a degree and a job .......... how can you only be 19yrs?????

[joeluke]

Postdog, it's not 'a man thing' to ogle our brothers/sisters children

It's a dirty old man thing

[Postdog]

dads are slightly different from uncles. I've known dad's who would never feel pervy, if you wanna use that word, at their daughter, but bring in the daughter's friends and they notice... different story

[joeluke]

Suspect.....'most males look at young ladies'

Yes but not when they are our siblings children we don't (shouldn't)

[sherrardk]

I've got an uncle like that - see him very rarely but he is always suggestive (the last two times I saw him were at funerals and that didn't stop (one was my mother's!). I just want to tell him to f**k off, but don't really think that kicking off at a funeral is the done thing.