what would you prefer:
a partner who really is not very proficient sexually, doesn't really turn you on, but is caring, thoughtful, generous and you have a good time together.
Or
a partner who is excellent in bed and turns you on, but can be selfish, often ignores you, doesn't make you feel loved and you don't particularly get on out of bed?
Your first option sounds better to me salla, as I'm sure you yourself could teach him all he needs to know for performing in bed !
You have to get on together otherwise the relationship will not last 5 min.....