Relationship over!

[tiggerblue10]

I posted a thread yesterday in chatterbank saying I was depressed about my boyfriend wanting to cool things. Well its basically over now and I have to try and get over it although I'm too upset to even think about anything else. How can I deal with this right now? I feel so sick and my appetite is still down. I've hardly eaten anything in the last 2 days.

Leg - if your there I could really do with that doughnut.

[Louisa 69]

I feel for you tigger. I've been there myself and it's the worst feeling, it really doesn't matter what anyone says it something you have to work through. At least you've got us mad bunch here to help you out. I would advise you to try and keep busy, isn't there a friend you go and visit just someone to share your thoughts with ?
Try drinking complan it might help. Thinking of you x x

[tiggerblue10]

Hi Louisa,

I've just had a chat with my mate about it but she couldn't talk long as shes putting her kid to bed.

I think the problem with me is that I want to have a baby and I'm in my mid 30's. I feel like time is running out. Maybe its the baby I want more than the man. Is that a selfish thing to say?

What is complan? I've heard of it but I don't know what its for.

[velvet lady]

complan is lush, i gave it to a poorly 9 year old, and they thought they were drinking a milkshake!!! strawberry or choc. it has all the vits and nutrients.

sont turn to alcohol though as its a short term thing and u will feel worse, i did that and nearly lost my job as was drunk all day every day for weeks. my house looked like a council slum cos i lost the will to care!!

once i realised that gin was not bringing him back, i went out and met new people and met a great guy xxxxx

go tigger xxx

[tiggerblue10]

I don't drink alcohol anyway so that won't be a problem. I gave up smoking a few months ago but I really feel like having 1 now.

Why can't I ever meet someone who really wants to be with me. I feel like I'm always left on the shelf.

[Louisa 69]

Feeling like your biological clock is ticking away could well be putting more pressure on you . It will happen you will meet someone and will look back wondering what all the tears were for. I always think it strange that when you break up with someone and you think i'll never meet anyone like him again and then you meet someone else , break up with them and think the same thing.
Never give up.

Complan is a powdered drink that you mix with water or milk it's full of vitamins and minerals, great to take if you have a loss of appetite, tastes good too. x x

[velvet lady]

Dont light up!!!! u`ll hate yourself for it

i told myself i would be on my own 4ever and then u just have a different attitude to men. act laid back, and get a great social life, join a nite class, gym, do something and u will be amzed at wot happens next

velvet counsellor xxxx

[tiggerblue10]

Thanks guys xxx

I just want to get pregnant and I could happily live on my own with a kid. I've been living on my own for the past 11 years anyway so nothing will change apart from a baby being there.

[bigmamma1]

Oh tiggerblue sweetheart , I am no used to you as regards your relationship but I just couldn't pass over your thread as I am sorry to see you so upset . Glad you have the lovely people above to talk to , always there for you . Try to eat a little something even if it's little nibbles or nice comfort foods . Take care . (( hugs )) xxx

[tiggerblue10]

Thanks BM. Hope you are well love xxx

I can't put anything to my mouth at the moment. I just feel so sick. I'm going out tomorrow so hopefully that will take my mind of the situation a bit.

I just feel so alone at the moment.

[Louisa 69]

Hey tigger just noticed Rox's question and answers have dissappeared. What's happened ??

[tiggerblue10]

Hi Leg,

Thanks for the tune. He rang last night and we had a chat that went on for over 2 hours. Thats why I disappeared. We were doing stuff on facebook.

When we spoke earlier he said that he thought he was making a big mistake by not getting involved with me. If it is a mistake then it definitely is his loss.

Louisa - has Rox's thread come back yet?

[tiggerblue10]

The trouble is he lives just over an hours drive away from me so I think that is what has put him off.

Sometimes I just wonder why I bother.