i dont think TAB should message him! - if his family see it they may come on here to read his responses - and he may not want them to, he was controversial & it might upset them, he may even have said unkind things about them - this is anonymous after all.
although people here sort of 'knew' aog, none of us 'actually' knew him, we werent friends, he was just a username on a forum, its really none of our business why hes not here.
i remember when Whiffey died years ago, and one or two people here had to be 'told off' for trying to get too involved in it all, acting like it was their business & knew him, wanting details etc - i' think' his daughter announced it (??) and she wasnt happy about the actions of a few people - mainly for the reasons i mention above.