Sex buddies

[dave1969]

This is happening a lot around my area recently...
A women who does want any sort of relationship and ties just want a Sex Buddy who comes round a couple of times a week. This isn't one night stand just an arrangement between to consenting partners
I have been asked twice this year by different women who are single..
Have you heard this in your area ?

[unrulyjulie]

yes ive heard of it dave, its not something i would particularly want to do though but if the arrangement suits them, then fair play to em.

[China Doll]

I don't think it's something limited to any particular areas Dave, it's existed for years but is mostly a discreet arrangement between two people.

[Goodsoulette]

It's been going on forever hasn't it? I've grown up knowing about friends with benefits. I was always led to believe that the woman really wanted more and just put up with being used. Well I grew up and found out that that was not true at all.

Be careful, both parties have to be in exactly the same place emotionally else you end up with a 20 year old boy phoning you up and texting you 24/7!

[gonzo00]

sounds fine in theory mate....BUT....theres always ties....TREAD CAREFULLY!

[dave1969]

I can see why its happening most of the women are divorced and have been hurt and don't want to go there again.. So with this arrangement she gets the sex without sleeping with loads of males..
I have met one at the weekend who wants to be my sex buddy. But there's a problem already either i need a couple of sex buddies or i will have to report her to the trade descriptions as twice a week isn't enough... :o(

[logic]

that's what knackered me up years ago. :-)

[weeal]

lol @ Dave

Its called something else buddies here lol
Not ideal, one always gets more attached than the other

[dave1969]

I have to say this isn't discrete they say to there friends and people there single but have a sex Buddie so its more open. So instead of saying they have a boyfriend they say they have a sex Buddie.

[dave1969]

Its called that here weeal but i didnt want to write fcuk if you know what i mean

[EngTeach]

If both parties agree to the terms it can be great. I had FWB for a while, though it was not a weekly thing, he lived about 2 hours away. When he was in Ny we would get together for a weekend or whatever. If he was involved with someone or I was we would not hook up. I saw him about once a month for about 2 years. He is happily married and I have seen him at mutual friend's parties over the years and it is not wierd at all. What he tells his wife is up to him, she knows i was a friend of his friends. Which is true. D@mn that was a looong time ago.

[cuddleMe]

i used to have one only when i was at uni lol only lasted couple months or so though, he comes round to mine twicea week!! he was really good though.... not met anyone who was as good as him ever since!!!!

i only ended it because i was moving back home and he was moving back to Ireland lol .. oh well :)

well we all have needs!!

but met two other guys after him(not at the same time!) ... but they werent sex buddies though, because these guys i really liked and really thought we were getting somewhere, but when i read the signs (something iffy about him) i dont sleep with them.... .... now its been awhile now i might need a sex buddy!!

hmm .. mayb i should behave and find a guy i want to spend rest of my life with. :) xx

[bobtheturkey]

what if one of them is a serial killer? or has aids or has all sorts of nasty diseases or her bloke is hiding in the wardrobe with a sledgehammer like an updated fred west or what if she is really a bloke or what if she secretly records it and blackmails you by threatening to send the tape of you dressed up as the the indian from village people to your mates

[China Doll]

Fertile imagination there Twizzler ;0) ! Although any one of those scenarios could happen, we've all seen Fatal Attraction. I guess if either of them has a rabbit it's not a good sign.

[Beads]

Something you want to share with us Bob? ;-)

[bobtheturkey]

i forgot about that!

[dave1969]

I know there can be draw backs you just have to make sure you don't get attracted.. Which can easily be said than done...
As i said mine doesn't seem to be going to the way i thought i know its only Tuesday and the last was Friday.. I may need another.. As this Buddie thing are you usually loyal to each other or is it open ? I think i need a chat with my new friend...

[gonzo00]

i tried to boil my gf's rabbit.....the batteries exploded! :)

[weeal]

thankfully rabbits are less hassle than men !

[bobtheturkey]

and what if you puncture her and she flies out the windy hitting a policeman on the head

[logic]

Bloody ell P M S L can't life just be normal ?