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leanne_1987 | 21:45 Sun 22nd May 2011 | Family Life

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how do u tell if a man actually likes you? i have a bloke that comes around to my house when daughter goes to bed and we get on well, talk and have a cuddle and kiss; nothing more, he'll come and then go then i might not hear from him for a week or so, i know hes having work trouble and has been suspended from work so hes worrying about that and how hes guna support his kids and he still gets on with kids mum but he seems to be hiding stuff from me, why when were not even together? arghh i dont know what to do!! men who'd have um! lol

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boxtops

You sound a bit together if he comes round and you kiss and cuddle - I wouldn't do that with someone I didn't like. Perhaps he feels he doesn't know you well enough yet to be open with you.

lcg

if you keep letting him...he'll keep coming round. simples x

DTCwordfan

If he has been suspended try putting your suspenders on.....that may be stocking but maybe it will get him either talking or (obliterated by Ed)

trionam

Seems to me that he likes you but this will seriously wreck your head if you want to just wait for him to open up to you if it was me Id just ask him.

leanne_1987

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haha dont know whether to ask him wat he wants or comes for somethng to do!i'm actually really starting to like him now

DTCwordfan

let mother nature take its course...however, I would be very wary if he starts to make even the slightestr financial demand on you.

237SJ

Has he actually taken you out and wined and dined you or does he just come round?

welshlibranr

don't let his guy take you for granted leanne!............you can't allow him to come and see you when it suits him!..........what if it doesn't suit you?.............be careful here!.....don't let yourself be used!............

DTCwordfan

well I hope he does come round and nothing truncated on that expression.......it is past the watershed hour.

leanne_1987

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nope we havent been out as ive always got daughter up in bed, obviously dont want him around when shes awake, we can sit n talk for hours when hes here but as soon as he gone i'l get the odd text until he comes around again, im tempted to leave it n see if he makes any effort

trionam

If he really likes you leanne he will make an effort if not then you havent really lost anything anyway.In my experience when a bloke likes you he lets you know so if you dont want to ask put a bit of distance between you and you will soon know.