what is open sex?

[tamirra]

Hi, i thought i was logged onto my part of the computer until i went into the history to look for something and realised i was on my husbands one, in the history there was something on open sex, i couldnt open it to look and im not really sure what it is, does anyone know what it is? of course you do, can someone please tell me? Thanks

[kujawski]

it sounds like your husband is a bit of a perv!

it may be a gang bang web site,

or it may be something about gender

maybe he wants to be a woman???

[Velvetee]

Well open sex could be a number of things.

As someone mentioned it could be as in an open relationship, where couples have an agreement to see other people for sex outside of relationship, but without any emotional entanglement with those other people.

Or it could be as in having sex in a public place, like a train, plane, park or even dogging, where couples drive to secluded places, with the knowldege that others are in the bushes watching or taking photos.

It could even mean, again as suggested swingers parties or clubs. Many men fantasise about attending such events where couples either have sex together in full view of others or have sex with other couples or even engage in full blown orgies.

It sounds like he's encrypted the file, so only he can view it. If it was me, no matter how, I'd get into it to find out what he's up to.

[tamirra]

Mmmm thought it might have been but i was hoping i was wrong, how sad is my hubby. Thank you anyways. xx

[gucciman]

hes not sad hes a normal healthy male with a sex drive who like most men looks at websites showing the kind of sex we dream of having.

[sir-gravy]

sounds like he is a right pervert. ditch him and start again

[marki961]

I agree with gucciman, he's just being a normal healthy male. Leave him alone, a bloke's got to have fantasies!
You women read too much into men looking at porn.

[tamirra]

No Gucciman, i have no problem with him looking at porn as we watch dvds together, im just worried that he is going to go and have the open sex, not watch it! x

[terambulan]

Look for heavy skid-marks on his boxers/Ys.......he'll be dogging!

[sallybowles]

If you watch dvds together and have a healthy sex life, he's probably looking at more ways for both of you to have fun.
why don't you ask him?

[tamirra]

I cant ask him, and unfortunatly our sex life isnt a healthy one im affraid since my hysterectomy, so this is probally the reason why, ive tried numerous things to put this right but come to a dead end, and im talking about prescribed medication plus pills from health shops, but its all crap, any ideas out there that maybe you may know and can help.