fed up

[polly1]

just been going out with someone for nearly 2 months - we went to a bbq at weekend and had a big stooshie about him wanting to take drugs there - it was the first time i'd met his friends etc and the first time he was going totake anything in front of me...naturally was worried what would happen. we met up last night and i said wasnt really good enough - (he was stoned at this point) so we have split up. Do you think it is unreasonable for someone to expect there behaviour to change at least a tad eg. smoke less hash??? alos is it possible to become addicted to weed that it takes over your life???
ps he's 32