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jd_1984 | 11:54 Wed 18th Jun 2014 | Body & Soul
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This is a serious question which is why I havent put it in Chatterbank, which would likely encourage humorous replies!!
But, as a newly married man I am not sure whether we are being intimate frequntly enough. I realise circumstances will play a huge part in marital relationships but we are probably being intimate around 2-4 times a month (not including kissing and that type of affection)
As a younger man, in less serious and more casual relationships, I was going at it a hell of a lot more. But, I question whether we are in a rut, so soon into married life!!!
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Some might say you have Post Wedding Depression (I kid you not), all the fun build up to the wedding and holiday then back down to reality. Now you've made sex an elephant in the room you need to address it by talking, and honestly saying how you expect your sex life to be. We have runs of very regular sex then it might be 2 or 3 weeks before we do it again, and as Ummmm...
13:16 Wed 18th Jun 2014
viv38
Sqad always makes me laugh - he's a card ...
lol yes "the joker"
What's funny is that some of the females on here think that Sqad is joking, whereas most of the males know he's telling it how it is, it's just that most wouldn't admit so to their other halves! LOL
So you have a saving grace then - it is constantly boring but you don't tell her.


Good man, you have gone up in my estimation.
mamy...I give up...............
He's about 80 years old. I wouldn't take advice from him. Women no longer lay back and think of England!
Well, as a person who lives a totally celibate life (not from choice I may add) I would say I don't have sex enough, would love to go back to even once a week!!
I agree with ummmm.....ignore my posts...........what do i know anyway?
Maybe it's a question of geography?:

Between the ages of 16 – 20, a woman is like Africa.

She is half discovered, half wild.

Between the ages of 20 – 30, a woman is like America.

She is fully discovered and scientifically perfect.

Between the ages of 30 – 35, a woman is like India and Japan.

She is very hot, wise and beautiful.

Between the ages of 35 – 40, a woman is like France.

She is half destroyed after the war but still desirable.

Between the ages of 40 – 50, a woman is like Germany.

Though she lost the war, there is still hope.

Between the ages of 50 – 60, a woman is like Russia.

She is very wide, very quiet but nobody goes there.

Between the ages of 60 – 70, a woman is like England.

She has glorious past but the future is uncertain.

Between the ages of 70 and above, a woman is like Siberia.

Everyone knows her location, but no one wants to go there.
Chilli...LOL
chill lol very good
This is the post I was referring to Sqad

//Making love to the same woman, the same way with predictable responses....masturbating is an improvement on that.
One gets bored...BORED.

It is normal .//


What a miserable existence, so give up on my responses, for I shall leave them there.


jd, sorry that I in part have lead your thread away from where it should have stayed - goes to show there are some very different marriages/relationships out there.


I shall leave this now as I am annoying others.

Best wishes.
31 isn't exactly over the hill - but you might reasonably expect your sex life to be a bit quieter than at 21. You're probably got more responsibilities now, and more things to take up your time and energy. (This is just a guess, obviously.)

Good Best Answer from rocky.
You're not the annoying one, Mamy..

Sqad...you know no more than any of us. You're just not loyal and faithful like some of us.
Chill, note that in the OP, jd said he wasn't looking for humorous answers...
According to that chill, I'm 'still desirable' !
Sqad - "Andy H has come up with his usual "good advice" but just TRY telling your OH that she is *** in bed.....it doesn't work."

Thanks for the compliment, but I'm not sure that what i said relates to the second half of your post - it takes two to be good, or indeed *** in bed!
Chill, note that in the OP, jd said he wasn't looking for humorous answers..
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And cue killjoy! Give it a rest for kerrist's sake, some of the other answers have had a bit of humour attached.
Exactly Andy.
viv,
Were you ever anything else? x
1st Mr Craft..............whenever we could.
2nd Mr Craft...............2 or 3 times a week.
3rd Mr Craft.................was a great golfer.

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