Regrets

[4getmenot]

Ok I need womans and blokes answers on this. trying to see how many people have dumped people and regretted it. To me I know lots of men that have done it and really regret it, whereas I dont know many woman who have as they seem to know they did it for a reason. So who has dumped someone and regretted it? Cant say I have.

[nat_84]

I did what I had to do

And saw it through without exemption

[shineybomb]

I've never regretted any of the men I've dumped - they were all dumped for a good reason and with thought beforehand.

One of my school boyfriends dumped me and I was devestated. Then two years later we got back together, went out for a couple of months and I realised he was actually quite boring and dumped him. Unfortunately for him, he had by then realised that he loved me so I felt bad for him but knew that he was not right for me.

Now I've got the best man ever and we've been together for nearly 6 years.

[natalie_1982]

The only thing I regret is going out with any of my ex's in the first place!

Seriously, I don't regret dumping any of them :-)

[ELVIS68]

Regrets about what? dumping someone?...not really, what`s done is done..Onwards and upwards as they say

[Rubyrose]

But Elvis... have you travelled each and every highway?

[fine,thanks]

i did break up with someone i was quite young, i told them a lie i do regret doing that,

[ELVIS68]

I did but hey...That`s Life!

[natalie_1982]

That's what all the people say

[ALLO5775]

i don't know about regrets, but i've dumped plenty. see there was this older man i was so in love with. he was 25 and i was 17. we would kiss here n there but nothing further. he didn't any comitments. so i would go out n start dating diff guys, but as soon as i would see the older guy i would dump the one i was dating. i told them i could never be with them cause someone else held my heart. for yrs i chased this older man. he would kinda lead me on. calling me up to hang out, kissing me, you know. i felt bad about the other guys. like i was leading them on for no reason. i knew i loved the older man. well guess what............ he's now my husband and we have 3 beautifull kids together!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so it did work out in the end. so no. i have no regrets.

[Rubyrose]

Well I want to be a part of it, right through the very heart if it..

[Joe_the_Lion]

I have never dumped a girl nor been dumped. I have however, been both victim and player of unrequited love, which can be bad.

[Octavius]

What like, Strangers In the Night ?

[nutgoneflake]

At 18, I dumped a guy of 26 - first one I'd slept with - he cried buckets on the phone whilst horribly drunk and then passed out. Thing is, I'm not a callous old cow, and wasn't then, but the more he cried, the more I knew I'd made the right decision. The thought of him now is enough to make me bring up my lunch, but I'm REALLY not a horrible person, promise. He was always very odd, and I only found out last year (20 years later, I might add) that he came to the pub I worked at, and my brother caught him at the door and warned him off because HE thought he was odd too. At the time I lived in deepest, darkest South Wales. Six months or so later, I was working miles away in Selfridge's in Oxford St and looked up one day to see this guy standing there, looking menacingly at me. He said "I knew I'd find you" and then wandered off. Never seen him since, and blow me, am I glad??!!

[4getmenot]

Looks like you had lucky escape :-)

[nutgoneflake]

Hell yes! The really weird thing is that his brother was totally gorgeous. I'd fancied him for ages and didn't know they were related until I met his parents for lunch one Sunday, and he was there too. We got on really well. No chance of me ever getting together with him afterwards, though, imagine the scene!!

[4getmenot]

well could be, has been done before ;-)

[Hellyon]

Being dumped was always painful but once the initial 'trauma' is over I've always come to realise it was the best thing. I've never regretted dumping anyone - but I've just had a weird experience, I've just bumped into an ex (who was drop dead gorgeous!) bf who is moving into the house opposite, he was last heard of in Scotland, he still looks rather gorgeous so I might regret that!!!! Only joking I wouldn't swop Mr Hellyon for anyone - he understands me.
I was a bit stunned meeting the ex though , it's the first time I've ever seen one of my ex's after we had finished.

[Rubyrose]

On a moon river