I've got bluetooth on my laptop , I've had it for over a year now but when the bloke put all the software on he set up the bluetooth to recognise my mum's bluetooth how do I change it to recognise mine? You have to go into Control Panel or something
Recognise your mum's bluetooth what? :) Bluetooth is a type of radio connection, it's not a device itself so is it your mum's computer that has bluetooth? A headset? A mobile phone?
To find it, your device has to be on and switched to be able to be "found". Then go to Control Panel -> Bluetooth Devices and click Add. Then follow the prompts on screen...