is it better?

[Minxie]

To be unhappy in a relationship.....or to be alone?

[unruliejulie]

There's no lonlier feeling than being in an unloving relationship. Much better to be alone and happy than together and miserable. No contest!

[wonderful]

Alone ,and happy but you will always meet someone else and be happy again with them

[Minxie]

Thats true julie. I am not happy now, but give it time i guess......

wonderful....thanks xx

[unruliejulie]

are you alone and unhappy minixie? if so, it will get better that i can promise you.I have been in this situation and eventually, you will be so comfortable being alone. it will be hard to let someone into your life! all the best Xxx

[Minxie]

hi julie, was in a relationship, but lonely.... as it felt one-sided. So not going to feel lonely anyone.... buck myself up. Get my self esteem sorted. And stop taking 2nd best! Thankyou for replying xx

[stephyker]

Its better to be alone. I have been in a relationship where i was unhappy. Constantly giving him chances. My friends always had boyfriends when i was single and longed for a relationship of my own. Now i have grown up, i realise that i would rather be alone. i have been single for nearly 2 years now, always get asked why i am, my answer being that i haven't found anyone yet who i want to be with. be patient, and they shall come to you. til then, i shall be enjoying the single life!

[Minxie]

thanks stephyker.....been on a up and down level. Felt great on Friday. Feel like s*it today. Hope I can just feel "normal" again soon xx

[stephyker]

thats it, you don't want to have 2nd best. i'd rather have my own company, than trying to make a huge impression on someone. if you have to try so hard to get them to notice you, they aren't worth it. singleness is great most of the time, just the occasional down day, most likely when around coupled up friends!

[Minxie]

yes, and when all you friends are married and you are alone. And they try to help, but they have no idea of how you are feeling, because they are not in that situatiion. Had a rough day today... hopefully tomorrrow will be better. Thanks steph xx