hya animals4me
if the tunes are in your library in itunes?
first when you open it up, and it should show your ipod name?
make sure you have unticked the 'sync' box and then you can add manually by right clicking the album or tune, you could even go to edit and select all, left click over the album then drag to the ipod in the left panel, a small disk thing will rotate as the tunes are being added, also a tool bar will appear for the progress, I hope this helps