I Realise That

[Redhelen72]

I am truly disliked on here but it took me till today to realise how much.
Shame really not sure who it shows up the most.
Yes I realise that some MOD or Ed will probably remove this and yes I know that I should just suck it up but it really gets on my goat that I am constantly accused of bullying but no one bats an eyelid at the treatment dished out to me.

[melv16]

You should change your username to Novak:-)

[sherrardk]

I missed whatever has gone on but there’s some particularly sad and pathetic people on here. Whatever’s been said try not to take it to heart and just be thankful you don’t actually know these people - some poor sod probably has to deal with them everyday.

[10ClarionSt]

Say what you want and you're out! Some people on here feel the same about me, Helen, but i take no notice. It's only words on the screen. Just ignore.

[Atheist]

Redhelen72.
I don't hate you and I haven't seen much badmouthing of you.
Of course, you might be horrible, but I haven't noticed it myself. There's plenty of rude and quasrrelsome people here.
Have you bullied anyone?

[tiggerblue10]

I haven't seen what has happened today but not everyone dislikes you. For what its worth, I don't :o)

[ToraToraTora]

the first thing to realise on this site helen is that the rules are very subjectively applied both across topic and personality.

[tiggerblue10]

I guess we all have our own opinions and when others object to that opinion, they spout off telling you that you're the one in the wrong. When it gets to that stage I tend to back off. Not worth the grief.

[gness]

Wow! What on earth has happened, Helen. Okay you can't say and I missed it. For what it's worth I quite like having you on here....even though you're from over the border.....that's a joke by the way, because we seem to have to explain so much on AB these days.... ;-)

[anneasquith]

I have not been on AB a lot recently. Please don’t let anyone on an anonymous internet site bother you at all RH.
There is most definitely a shift in the content on AB , not for the better .

[anneasquith]

I’ve not seen RH bully anyone on AB atheist.

[divegirl]

Meh... try being the token Vegan on here, I'll show you hated lol

Seriously, ignore the bad and praise the good. If people want to resort to online bullying to get them through the day then as has been said, thank Dog you don't have to live with them hehehehe

Peace and love xx

[Atheist]

Anne, neither have I. I obviously missed some exchange that upset Redhelen.

[Atheist]

divegirl, I'm the token vegetarian!. Bet I've been veg longer than you've been vegan. But at least we're vaguely on the same route.

[anneasquith]

Atheist, I thought it an odd question you asked RH .

[Mamyalynne]

Unsure what's brought this up Today RH, but it's sad to read.

I sometimes grimace at words bandied about on AB, there's no requirement to agree with everyone but civility is the very least one should expect.


Anyway - I loves ya ♥

[237SJ]

Don't worry about it. I don't give a flying *** what people think about me. It's the people in the real world that matter.

[Mamyalynne]

Hello Lisa (Dive) long time no see.

[Toorak]

I too am unsure what happened today but have seen it clearly before. It says a lot more about them than it does about you. Ignore and rise above it.

[Barsel]

Has it been removed where someone is being unkind to you?

[-SharonA-]

Don't be silly!! You're not disliked at all. There's small minded people who want to feel big. Ignore them.