The Royal Family can be likened to a stud farm. The late Queen was allowed to marry for love because it was never anticipated that she would get the top job.
Charles was not allowed that privilege – they needed heirs & they needed them pronto – so Diana was brought in as a naive, unsuspecting brood mare when Charles really preferred the old nag in the next stall.
Having stood by Queen & country and done his duty Charles & Diana were then free to go their separate ways with very unfortunate consequences for Diana.
Maybe things are somewhat better now & I admire Harry & Meghan for having the courage to break with tradition. I don’t think they could have lived happily with the constraints of being part of “the firm” & always playing second fiddle to William & Kate, so good luck to them. With their inside knowledge I have no problem with them telling their story as they see it.
I think the reverence for & deference to the Queen as she & Phillip aged over the last 2 or 3 decades has held back a much needed reformation & modernisation of the Monarchy. I hope Charles can grasp the nettle but maybe he has become too immersed in and immured with the prevailing culture to try to change it. And indeed why should he – he’s quite elderly, so why not just live out his days in the regal splendour to which he’s become so accustomed.
I hope he keeps out of politics but the fact that the monarch gets a daily “Red Box” and has a weekly audience with the PM does not bode well. No other unelected individual is accorded those privileges.