@hellywelly4 Ursula clearly has been bullied by Bruce for years. However, she has been conditioned (Stockholm Syndrome) and doesn't see it as bullying but as perfectly normal behaviour. She is subservient to Bruce, but a bully to others. Rob obviously takes after his father, and if Helen hadn't gone all stabby on him, she would have become Ursula in a few years time.
@jourdain2 With regard to Henry going to boarding school, Helen would have to agree to any change of school as she still has parental responsibility for Henry, and always will have.