Probably not relevant, and Whiffey will report me for being anti-men, I'm not ,well I married 2 of them. I once came back from a day out to find the house a complete tip. baked beans congealing on surfaces, toast crumbs everywhere. Every plate and fork I owned filthy in the kitchen. But mysteriously the sound of the dishwasher chugging away. When I asked what was in it, as the rest of the kitchen was covered in unwashed dishes, I was told "2 mugs for our next cup of tea" It never occured to the, now ex and his brother, to rinse 2 cups, or even fill the dishwasher before running it