What would you do?

Louise07 | 13:37 Fri 03rd Jul 2009 | ChatterBank

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Ok, have been with bf for 6 yrs, have young baby, and generally good relationship, he always says he worries that I may leave him as he has little self confidence. Today I got an email from a lady via a social network site, which attached a copy of an email between her and my bf. Basically it is flirting then goes on to filth and an invite from him to her round to my house for sex while I am away at my parents some 100 miles away. I am extremely hurt as I always trusted him. I have no idea what to do next, meant to be going on holiday next week, but how can I?

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sn�gs

''Today I got an email from a lady via a social network site''

How did she get 'your' email address?

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mccfluff

me - i'd show him the email and ask him what's is going on

sara3

I think snags makes a fair point..

PeeBee1

Yes you must confront him, or do a bit off digging first, is the attached copy sent to you real, does it have his email on it etc?? Poor you, your head must be up your arse & not sure what to do.

mccfluff

if for example the site is FB and both loiuse and this lady are members then she can email her that way.

Louise07

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well he's at work but i sent a text and he said its just a bit of fun so it is real Well it's not very funny from where i'm standing. I have no idea what to do when he gets home. She sent it as a message on my profile on a netwoking site so not directly to my email address. Thanks guys, need to get this off my chest. I dont think he would ever actually have anyone round as he is qute shy about his body but thats not the point is it

mccfluff

you need to talk to him about it, i wouldn't be happy at all if i was in your shoes and 'just a bit of fun' doesn'ty cut it really

PeeBee1

A bit of fun, is he havin a laugh, how would he feel if you where just "having a bit of fun"? I feel so angry for you Louise. You should have waited til you where both home face to face, he can think of a lot of excuses now.

sn�gs

''he said its just a bit of fun''

For him to be found out and make light of the situation shows no respect or sensitivity...

Would he be as 'ok' with it as he expects you to be, if he found out you had been emailing someone in a similar way?

BTW... here's my email :-))

sara3

so she knows you? I mean.. to contact you, she knows who you are? how long has this been going on?

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Louise07

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No she doesn't, it looks like one of them has added the other one as a 'friend' randomly, they dont live anywhere near each other and I dont know her.

No,Knowledge

the B/F might already be giving her a mouthfull

Louise07

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I know I was thinking of asking her why she plays along but then again maybe she has opened my eyes to what he really can be like