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Do You Think He Has Gone Off Me?

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abbeylee90 | 21:34 Wed 07th Feb 2024 | Family & Relationships
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I said I'd make a new thread earlier so like I explained in my other one. This guy I went on a date with 2 weeks ago and as I explained he said he wanted a 2nd we were meant to go out last Friday but he cancelled as he has a cold. He said on Sunday he would let me know if he wants to go out this week but said yesterday he has a cold but also hasn't been messaging me in the morning like he normally would 

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Abbey, don't put your life on hold waiting for him to decide what he wants.  Just get on with your life.  Go out with your friends and other men if you want to - and if he suggests another date play it by ear at the time.  If you're free and would like to go, go - if you're not free or don't want to go, don't.  If he just wants a casual relationship, that's fine.  You do the...
10:49 Thu 08th Feb 2024
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Well there's not without a 2nd date

He obviously wants to keep in touch if he is still messaging you.  Don't put him off - keep the friendly messages going and maybe when he feels better he will suggest another date.  You do seem to misunderstand people and have trouble understanding the usual rules of communication.  Some people might find this offputting so just chill and see what comes of it.

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That's why I don't want to say yet no point keeping in contact if no 2nd date incase I ruin things

Say nothing at all! Just be patient and wait for him to suggest a second date

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He asked what I was doing next week he said might be out Friday not sure about Saturday but I'm already out with Saturday 

If he asked what you're doing next week then he is obviously still interested

Why is there "no point" in keeping in touch. That's like saying he's only worth your time if he's relationship material. That's not very nice...

How would you feel if a guy said that to you?

 

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He said he might be out Friday and I'm already out Saturday with friends 

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Well I'd make more effort pasta 

Well if neither Friday nor Saturday suit then there's always next week 

^ sorry, the following week!

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I'm busy pretty much every Saturday this month and some of next as it rugby season 

So, do you play rugby, Abbey?

Or are you a keen spectator?

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Watch 

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Do you go to any of the Six Nations matches in Cardiff?

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Sometimes 

I have to laugh at what you've given as the best answer abbey - especially as it's highly likey to get removed.

11.25 That must be an expensive day out when you are short of cash - tickets up to around £100!

Ah, it was a mistake I see :-) 

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