swinging

[curiositykills]

has anyone on here ever tried this? is it as good as it sounds or is it the old 'dirty fat old men' trying it on with 'dirtier fatter old women' and not the glamorous porn fest it sounds?

im getting more and more sexually curious as the years pass and feel like im not exploring enough and making the most of situations.

ive heard of a couple of swinging clubs in the north but I am so scared of setting foot in one I dont think I will get over the fear!!!

[McMouse]

Me and two women. There were four of us originally but my pal got p1ssed and fell asleep in the hotel bar and the three of us went to my room.

[Davethedog]

Salla all the way?

[Sqad]

Well................some MEN are turned on by watching someone, usually known, having sex with their wives. I have mate who is a voyeur and have performed with his wife in front of him (Uknown to Mrs sqad)

Every Friday the "lads"met up at a Private Hospital for Fish and Chips and local gossip e.g who was knocking whom off etc and the subject of voyeurism cam up and I described my experience. It was met my horror, disgust..............and some interest although the general opinion was that it was a perversion.

HOWEVER.......over the next few Fridays, one by one thought that there was "something in it and might be turned on by the sight of somebody "giving their wife on"
There were ten of us lads and at the end seven said that it was not such a perversion as generally accepted, but three would have none of it.

Interesting?

[mccfluff]

but did any of them carry it out, that would be more interesting.

fatboy wants us to have a threesome with another woman but won't consider another man as that would be "wrong"

[Sqad]

McCluff...don´t know, but three of them sh@gged anything that moved.........but one of them got very upset and depressed when he found out that his wife was being knocked off by a Greek God figure who was a ski instructor....LOL

[joggerjayne]

ck ...

If you're getting curious and adventurous, just try it with 1 other guy first ...

... and take it from there.

[Bbbananas]

That;s usually the trouble with these things - one partner is more keen than the other. One is in favour, the other is co-erced or pressured to go through with it.

If both parties and keen and willing, I see no harm. It's just not for me.

(I have often fancied a one-off threesome though - but with two men, not a man & a woman (unless it was JJ !!!)
And dave - I kept my knickers on. Very brief ;-)

[mccfluff]

well i'm not averse to the threesome but if i don't get two men, he's not getting two women. i think that's only fair :-)

[joggerjayne]

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salla !

[Sqad]

salla....once you tried it, I doubt that it would be a "one off".............sensational with the right woman, who was game, uninhibited and "up for it"

[joggerjayne]

"game, and up for it"

or, in reality ...

"p1ssed and giggling stupidly"

[Sqad]

JJ.....WRONG........."p1ssed and giggly" then the deal is off.

We are talking sensual, fulfilling, understanding and erotic sex....serious stuff!

[McMouse]

If you're game you might get shot. Or is this the close season?

[Bbbananas]

Moi, Sqad and JJ then - what a proposition.......?!!

[joggerjayne]

Oh. That probably counts me out, then.

I'm not good at "erotic".

I get the giggles.

If I try to not giggle, and hold it in, then it suddenly bursts out in a loud laugh ...

... which, I do appreciate, can be a bit off-putting.

I have tried the sensual thing. I just can't do it.

[McMouse]

Sounds like you're more the swinging chandelier type jj.

[pips1]

Me too jj I'm exactly the same!!

[jno]

just ticklish in the wrong places, JJ

[Barmaid]

I'd probably have done it in my younger days had I have had the opportunity. But it would have been a one off. I sure as hell wouldn't want to do it with my BF. The thought of him "performing" with another woman sends me cold. He has expressed as much as far as I am concerned with another woman or man.

We did drive past a local dogging spot the other day and he said "how about it?" - jokingly. I responded he can't even do it if the bedroom curtains are open so felt he was being a tad ambitious!!

[joggerjayne]

Mousey ...

When someone ties you up with bathrobe belts (supposedly erotic), and then stands over you with his willy out ...

... how can you not burst out laughing ???

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