Should I?

[sazzle86]

I have recently got out of a relationship, and I seem to like someone else already. The guy I like is very sweet, and he is lovely, but he is not very experienced with the ladies. I have been told that he likes me too, but he is very nervous around women. Tho when we all hang out as friends everything is fine. What should I do? Should I make a move? How? I dont wanna look like a fool incase he doesnt like me back. HELP!!!

[ummmm]

Try spending time on your own with him.

[lil123]

Maybe just ask him if he fancies going to the cinema or something like that and see what his response is.
From my experience it's best to have a bit of time to yourself after leaving a relationship to get yourself back and strong so I wouldn't rush into anything.
Good luck x

[andy-hughes]

I have a patent foolproof method for sorting out interest levels.

Arrange a meal / pictures / bowkling, what ever, and when you part for the evening, stand very close to him and hold eye contact. Then move your face very slowly close to his, as though you are going to kiss him. If he responds, kiss him, and see what happens from there. If it is apparent is is not going to kiss you on the lips, move to the side and gently kiss him on the cheek.

Dignity maintianed all round - messages of intent and lack / reciprocated interest sent and received all round, and most vitally important, dignity retained by both of you.

Try it - it works.

[4getmenot]

is that what you do andy? lol

[sazzle86]

Andy, I will try it and see! Thanks
Fingers crossed 4 me guys!!!