sex

[lasher]

what makes a woman good in bed?

[froggequene]

A man who also makes the effort.

[flirty41]

...... and wanting to be with the person she's in bed with.

[froggequene]

I'm sorry about the sarky remark but I couldn't resist. The thing is everyone's experiences, expectations and needs are different so one man's sex goddess could be another man's unmoving plank. If you genuinely feel there is something wrong or needs improvement you should talk to your partner, or if that's not the problem then talk to your friends or invest in a bunch of glossy magazines (Cosmopolitan has made a career out of sex) or perhaps you could wonder along to amazon.co.uk, Tracy Cox does a nice line in helpful books.

[Cactus]

You mean what actually makes a woman good in bed? From personal experience, about half a bottle of Grappa should do it.

[gazzawazza]

I agree with froggequene, it's down to how the two people react together.

A man or woman can be the best lover ever but still might not do it for a particular person.

And I love that phrase "unmoving plank!!!"

[eatstatic]

Not taking all the covers

[Shatnerfan]

Oscar Wilde once said 'All a woman has to do to be good in bed is to show up.'

[Pickle]

Er.. Is Oscar Wilde the best person to say what makes a woman good in bed?

[RebeccaSJ]

A good partner.