bullies?

[cas23]

I posted a question yesterday and got a real bad response. The question I posted promted me to question the reasons for what I am doing and the reasons for what the other man is doing so I posted a picture and asked for an honest opinion, I got a lot of rude and abusive responses to this when I really did want an honest opinion of yes you are ok or noyou are noting special. This mornign I have read all the answers and to be honest I wouldn't have minded had you all said no, sorry, not my cup of tea, but you (most of you) were nasty about this and I probably feel 10 times more insecure now than I ever have!

[havinmysay]

to be honest i were lookin at your pic knowin u were sleepin with a married man thats why i were nasty.u WERE just fishin for compliments and it all back fired didn't it? u sound like your braggin about what u are doin and gettin a high off of hurting people,its quite clear u are gonna break up a family,and ask yourself if this man were single would u really look at him twice.

[nat_84]

(hey ad - just wrote a message in our "secret" thread ;o) )

[nat_84]

Oh and being as my dad had an affair and im sure many people who read your thread have been involved in some sort of marriage break down due to women like you and men like him - i doubt people would take to you too kindly.

[4getmenot]

Can I ask why did you ask people what they think of you, when you said you were a pretty blonde bimbo. So you must think you are pretty which to me most insecure people dont.

[888sally888]

Come near my husband and you wont walk again!

[ummmm]

Did you read the replys to your question about sleeping with a married man? They were calling you a *****! Then you were stupid enough to try and fish for compliments. I don't care what you say. From the average persons point of view all you were trying to achieve was a bucketful of compliments. I bet you're disappointed now!

[admarlow]

Not sure if its the same thing , but don't you just hate it when a girl says ''ooh Im so ugly I just hate my hair/bum/arms/face'' etc just so all the men say ''no you are gorgeous'' , now that is insecure.

[RATTER15]

Bit of an issue with the chin and eyes, I would have hidden it to honest, just for those that have not seen it yet: http://i9.tinypic.com/2eelede.jpg

[ummmm]

Admarlow. They do it to women too. Bull like I'm so fat. Roll your eyes and tell them to F off.

[ummmm]

So funny. I think poor cas23 will be cringeing now!

[cas23]

its amusing how u can make fun of my picture when i bet none of you are oil paintings yourselves? bet that your husband would rather be shagging me than you at night

[nat_84]

lmao - gosh u men are harsh. We just did a little confidence boost when we're going out with the girls.

It either comes from you or the Vodka!!!

[nat_84]

Just need*

[Pippa68]

And there we have it, people ......

[MORELLO]

With a final comment like that, how do you expect any support?

[nat_84]

I think my fellas quite happy shagg!ng me to be honest.

[nat_84]

And you're probably infected with an A-Z of STDs by the sounds of things...

[redcrx]

pmsl.
are you stuck in a corner cas23? No way out but to resort to such remarks?

[justasking]

I think the reason alot of people went crazy on this subject is the fact that when you ask a question like that, it's seen as begging for compliments. Also the fact that you say your having an affair with a married man shows your personality and even if someones beautiful, if they have a bad personality they become ugly. Saying that, not everyone thinks like me so if you had asked "do i have a pretty personality" I think you would of had worse comments.

[admarlow]

thanks for the offer cas23 but im washing my hair.