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Ok so i have a few questions! wat really goes on in mens head!
have been scorin a lad on / off for a while now wasn wit him for ages and then we were wit each other a few weeks ago! went back to his nothing happened talked for ages more than we ever had! then was out the nest weekend and he blanked me was a bit angry but i got over it then i got a message that nite! then we were txt for a while then all went quite then he made a bit of an effort last weekend to txt nd say hello not much else! so me the silly girl i am sent a drunken message one of the nites! txt last nite but he just stops after a while!
all i reallly want to know wat is he at? hes messin wi my head at this stage nd im quite sick of it!! but i feel quite stupid wen i txt him as if im bein a pest! could any one shed some light on this matter !
have been scorin a lad on / off for a while now wasn wit him for ages and then we were wit each other a few weeks ago! went back to his nothing happened talked for ages more than we ever had! then was out the nest weekend and he blanked me was a bit angry but i got over it then i got a message that nite! then we were txt for a while then all went quite then he made a bit of an effort last weekend to txt nd say hello not much else! so me the silly girl i am sent a drunken message one of the nites! txt last nite but he just stops after a while!
all i reallly want to know wat is he at? hes messin wi my head at this stage nd im quite sick of it!! but i feel quite stupid wen i txt him as if im bein a pest! could any one shed some light on this matter !
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Sorry, just curious, why are some of the words in your question typed out in full, i'e 'light', while others abbreviated, i.e 'nite', 'wasn', 'wit' and 'wi', (I am assuming the last two are both ''with'), what determines the rules with 'text speak'?
As the author of the question, I am sure it makes perfect sense to you when you read it, however, the missing punctuation makes it difficult for the rest of us to comprehend your meaning without extra effort. This is not a criticism as such (punctuation is a pain at times), but perhaps it would help you to get more answers if you refrained from using 'text' abbreviations as well, as this just adds to the confusion.
In answer to your post however, the boy in question probably sees you as a 'stand by', i.e. if he 'lucks out' elsewhere, he knows he can always 'fall back' on you (no pun intended), as an ego boost. Therefore, as long as you put up with it, he'll keep stringing you along.
As the author of the question, I am sure it makes perfect sense to you when you read it, however, the missing punctuation makes it difficult for the rest of us to comprehend your meaning without extra effort. This is not a criticism as such (punctuation is a pain at times), but perhaps it would help you to get more answers if you refrained from using 'text' abbreviations as well, as this just adds to the confusion.
In answer to your post however, the boy in question probably sees you as a 'stand by', i.e. if he 'lucks out' elsewhere, he knows he can always 'fall back' on you (no pun intended), as an ego boost. Therefore, as long as you put up with it, he'll keep stringing you along.
The answer to your first question is a vacuum.
You sound young (scorin??) so I'm guessing your dealing with a young man. Generally they just think about food, women, and maybe footwear. He is obviously keeping you on the scene as a 'spare' while he checks out all the other girls. If he's doing you head in now and you are not even going out with him, then he isn't worth using your energy worring about it is he?
You sound young (scorin??) so I'm guessing your dealing with a young man. Generally they just think about food, women, and maybe footwear. He is obviously keeping you on the scene as a 'spare' while he checks out all the other girls. If he's doing you head in now and you are not even going out with him, then he isn't worth using your energy worring about it is he?
I'm 26 and I feel old for the first time. When did new slang start passing me by?
Lesson A. At the end of the day EVERYTHING boils down to communication. You want to know what's going on in his head - ask him.
Lesson B covers the possibilty of him lying or not wanting to communicate. Get lesson A sorted first though.
Lesson A. At the end of the day EVERYTHING boils down to communication. You want to know what's going on in his head - ask him.
Lesson B covers the possibilty of him lying or not wanting to communicate. Get lesson A sorted first though.
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