I have no children of my own, I have nieces an nephews and I hurt when one of them suffers. Jeza, I don't care what people say, time is NO healer when you lose a child!
Hate my mum and still do (with good reason), and barely knew my dad as he and mum divorced when I was little, I was brought up in care and my dad married a 16 year old girl and had 2 sons with her when I was about 5 years old (he was 40ish). He died when I was 8.
I hated my mother at three she said in an outburst we never wanted you , your father wanted a boy and promtly threw a childs chair at me ! My dad bless him tried to make up for her attitude towards me, ten years later they had the boy they always wanted.Love my kids to death.