When do you let go?

[spotsandstripes]

At what point in time do you let go and give up on someone? I like someone, it's not going far & yet time & time again, I run back to him when he shows the slightest bit of interest, even then? he don't show any interest in me. He never replies to my texts, takes about a day to reply when he replies, which is always a few words, yet the odd time we talk in great detail he acts like he really likes me. He doesn't. Actions speak louder, and here? Theres no actions from him. This has been an on going thing since 2009 now. When will I stop liking this guy. May I also add when we was seeing each other a while back he slept with some girl, which lead us to now become this mess of a friendship, relationship mess that we are. We also havn't slept together so this isnt sexual.

[4getmenot]

you let go now and only go back when he asks you out, hardest thing I ever did in my life was saying goodbye to my ex, but now also the best thing I ever did.

[boxtops]

You let go now. He's stringing you along, and he's getting a kick out of you being needy. This isn't a relationship. You be strong - start looking the other way, and stop texting him. Now.

[Prudie]

You let go when you tell yourself to let go, which so far you haven't. The advice of friends is pointless, only you can do it.

[China Doll]

I think when you start questioning your own self respect then it's probably time to delete the number and move on.

[Hopkirk]

You know the answer.

[NOX]

I don't think he's stringing her along, probably just trying to be nice but it's clear he's not romantically interested so the time to move on is now, either that or have a really good sit down talk and tell him properly how you feel and what's going on but be prepared for him to really not feel the same and for their to be weirdness between you.

[bloaterbum]

You know, Ihave spent my life trying to mend relationships and as iwas saying to some disillusioned soul yesterday and Iknow it's hard, but you can't change anyone .It's hard if you are that type you will try 'til it hurts.Sorry mate there is no point in all this anguish.Call it a day and move on .for the sake of your own dignity.

[Kristal53]

I'm assuming this is a hetrosexual relationship. Men being men, he would have had you in bed by now if he was remotely interested in you sexually/romantically. There is no reason why you still can't keep this person as a friend or aquaintance but at arms length. Stop Texting and phoning and if he never contacts you again well hard luck on him -if he does contact you treat this as a girlfriend calling you for a chat and try and throw in something about 'a guy' you're seeing (even if its not true) this will take the pressure off him and make him realise you've moved on . He could be a really nice guy who just is'nt interested in you 'in at way'. Best course of action for you is to get out socially and find someone else.

[woofgang]

When do you let go? In 2010.......

[Brinjal]

Today