they obviously apply for this programme together, so theres no way that they'd never discuss wot the bride wants before hand just incase they get picked for the programme. me n my hubby said that if we applied, we would have discussed everything that we wanted, but cudnt wait for a reply and did it last year on our own!!! the £12,000 would have come in handy though!!!
Is this the Don't tell the Bride programme? I suppose they are getting paid for doing it, so there is some advantage - but otherwise, No I wouldn't dream of it. We decided on everything for our wedding together - some my ideas, some his.