I know, I wasn't suggesting he'd lied about all of those things, just that taking advice from friends who recommend you don't put real location/job etc is never a good thing! I used to reply to people who had interesting jobs because I always thought if there was no spark, at least we could talk about work. If they said they actually did something else entirely I'd be very unimpressed. Also, and I know it shouldn't make a difference (but it does), if she really is 36 she may be thinking about children - having kids with a guy who is 45 is somehow different to 50, I don't really know why.