Gormless, sorry to hear about your mum. It is never easy to lose your mum, but cancer is one of the (IMO) worse ways to go. I have relatives who have died of cancer and it is horrendous.
Knobby, posts about dead relatives are out of order. No excuses for it - none whatsoever, however much a grievance you have.
To bring a poster's dead mum into it is disgusting beyond belief.
I will email the Ed about this offensive post, and I hope other decent posters on here will do the same.