weird daughter in law

[holden]

after nearly 2jears ago when my son died a accidentl dead my daughter in law handed me his ashes over through her sister in law. with writing on container in black texter that she and her 2 children have now found peace and the rest of it is mine. my husband and i have made arrangements to bury his ashes in the cemetry with a plague. i never got on with her as she was very controlling as soon as they got married, and we hardly know their two children as she withheld them from us.
she seperated from my son not even a week and he died accidently drowning in bath according to coroners investigations. we have doughts as many things dont add up.
i would like jour thoughts on this.
mind jou my son was sick with MS for the last 10 jears. on the night he died he was having a few glasses also.

[sammy snake]

I can't really understand your question to be honest.

So was she seperated from your son when he died? What is it you find strange, the circumstances of his death or the way she gave you the ashes?

[bednobs]

i dont really understand how other peoples thoughts would help - are you implying you think he was murdered by her? if so, go to the police!
if you did go to the police at the time, and they investigated, there is nothing you can do now

[luckyman]

ur question doesnt really make any sense..

[marval]

Personally I would just bury his ashes, then you can grieve properly. It does seem a bit weird, but don't let what your daughter-in-law did get to you. It is a shame about the children, not being allowed to know their grandparents. But you have to move on, If he was ill, maybe he had had enough but, it is just as likely it was an accident. Obviously if you really thought she had something to do with it, then you have to report your suspicians. Otherwise get on with your life as best you can.