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My gf and I are thinking about moving in together, so ive been half living at hers and half at mine for the last month or so. Monday night we both went out separately with our own friends and planned to meet up at her home later. Basically I got very dunk with my mates and when I got home i thought (in my very drunken state) that it might be fun to wind her up and make her jealous by telling a few porkies about the night and me and women etc. Obviously when I woke in the morning I deigned everything, got my friends to back me up by letting her know how much I love her, bought her flowers to say sorry etc etc etc. and she said it was fine, said she understood and no harm done and that we were ok.
However last night we went to the pub and an argument started up about the whole thing and she basically said she didn't believe me about Monday night, she was now sure that something did happen with me and other women and she didn't trust me anymore. She then goes off to the loo, and she was in there a long time. As it is a pub we both know well, I asked the barmaid to go into the loo to see if she was ok and not crying or anything. The barmaid said she was fine, and that she was just on the phone. When she came out all seemed to be ok and we got ready to leave 5-10mins later.
All of a sudden from behind a big guy grabs my arm, shoves me out the door and says them my gf is so upset, doesn't want to see me anymore and to leave her alone. My gf at this point is running to the house, and by the time I get this guy off me, she had my brief case with wallet, phone, laptop etc. at the front door. The guy basically shoves it my hand says the rest of my clothes and stuff etc will be sent on and that I'm not to return back there at all or get in contact with her (obviously I realise she was on the phone to him whilst in the loo).
and if i didnt go or do return he would call the police.
However last night we went to the pub and an argument started up about the whole thing and she basically said she didn't believe me about Monday night, she was now sure that something did happen with me and other women and she didn't trust me anymore. She then goes off to the loo, and she was in there a long time. As it is a pub we both know well, I asked the barmaid to go into the loo to see if she was ok and not crying or anything. The barmaid said she was fine, and that she was just on the phone. When she came out all seemed to be ok and we got ready to leave 5-10mins later.
All of a sudden from behind a big guy grabs my arm, shoves me out the door and says them my gf is so upset, doesn't want to see me anymore and to leave her alone. My gf at this point is running to the house, and by the time I get this guy off me, she had my brief case with wallet, phone, laptop etc. at the front door. The guy basically shoves it my hand says the rest of my clothes and stuff etc will be sent on and that I'm not to return back there at all or get in contact with her (obviously I realise she was on the phone to him whilst in the loo).
and if i didnt go or do return he would call the police.
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i agree with BBW, sounds like she has seen a glimpse of the REAL you - and doesn't like it.
alcohol lowers our inhibitions and can sometimes let out a part of us we usually keep hidden in polite society.
you have shown your true colours and i expect she has realised you are not the person you pretend to be.
what you did was cruel, pointless, immature, nasty, stupid, irrational, arrogant, cocky, vindictive, spiteful, pathetic and just plain humourless.
i hope you got all the fun out of it as you had hoped.
i am also not entirely convinced you "made it all up for a joke" - why would anyone make life difficult for themselves, when there is no reason?
I suspect you spilt the beans in a bold brazen way and now regret it and are trying to backtrack and want us to provide you with ideas to try convince her it was all a lie.
alcohol lowers our inhibitions and can sometimes let out a part of us we usually keep hidden in polite society.
you have shown your true colours and i expect she has realised you are not the person you pretend to be.
what you did was cruel, pointless, immature, nasty, stupid, irrational, arrogant, cocky, vindictive, spiteful, pathetic and just plain humourless.
i hope you got all the fun out of it as you had hoped.
i am also not entirely convinced you "made it all up for a joke" - why would anyone make life difficult for themselves, when there is no reason?
I suspect you spilt the beans in a bold brazen way and now regret it and are trying to backtrack and want us to provide you with ideas to try convince her it was all a lie.
