Most proud of... besides my kids (who are truly gifts!) I am most proud of learning to stand on my own and not expect anyone else to lead the way, provide financial support, or make all the bad things go away.
It's amazing what you can do when you take control of your own life and stop expecting others to act a certain way or do a certain thing on your behalf.
Romantic movies and happily-ever-after tales distract our focus from relying on our own wits and being happy with ourselves first and foremost, I believe.