Arguments

[commonquestions]

One day me & my boyfriend got into an argument. During the argument, he called me a *** repeatedly before I responded. When I did respond, I said, "your momma." It was like word vomit because he just kept saying *** over & over, & I never even called him out his name at that point. I don't think there's ever a good time to name call, but the situation didn't even warrant for me to be a *** in that moment. He already knows that calling me out my name is disrespectful, we've been over this, so he knew just how that would effect me, obviously. I was so hurt that he called me a ***, that I wanted to hurt him in return. His mother is dead by the way. I know that I was wrong for saying what I said, but as I mentioned, since my feelings were hurt, I wanted his feeling hurt if not just as much as mine, then more. By saying what I said, he feels like I was the only one wrong in the situation. Can everyone analyze this situation for me?

[smurfchops]

Get another boyfriend.

[bednobs]

No sorry but mainly cause I can't understand your post much.what I will say though is if you are hurting each other and making each other miserable it's probably time to split

[anneasquith]

Maybe if we knew what *** was .

[TheWinner]

1. You both need to grow up.

2. You should never, ever, EVER, speak ill of the dead, and you need to apologise to him for being such a ****.

[commonquestions]

The system auto removed the cuss word, but it's pretty much female dog.

[commonquestions]

Long story short, my boyfriend called me a female dog & I called his mother one in return. His mom is dead. Does him calling me a female dog justify me calling his mom one? Was I the only one wrong in the situation?