Excuse me Naomi! - I was very concerned to the point I offered several times to help her out.
I certainly was not detering anyone from asking I was pointing out that since this post went live she has logged on twice!
Seriously I don't know why I bother sometimes!
Some of us are concerned about jj. , but I think she may well not have seen seen your post Tilly.. she hates fuss, please don’t feel ignored by her . If she is looking in, that’s good news . Redhelen , that’s just her ‘ way’ don’t fret about it.