I don't think Nailit was making a judgement about "Gary/Mary" when he said they creep him out, that's a feeling not a judgement, I hate clowns - they freak me out and creep me out. I don't understand the insd and outs of what's under this rainbow flag that is LGBT and all the rest, but my friend of a lifetime has a few children (adults now ) and a few months ago she posted a 'Happy Birthday' Message to her wonderful daughter and how Mammy and Daddy were so proud of her (on facebook ) and there were loads of likes and responses and I thought, I know your children, who is this daughter, was her younger son, everyone seemed ok with it all, I still cannot call her son 'Kellie' and that creeps me out so I feel similar to Nailit in that when I am introduced to a person of one sex and then they are another the next day, it freaks me