How Much Should I Offer?

[ladybirder]

A neighbour offered to cover two dining chairs for me with material which I had bought. He had to remove two layers first and it took him about 40 mins in total. He’s saying he doesn’t want a payment but I insist. I’m thinking around £30. What do you think?

[Georgiesmum]

I was going to say, if all else fails invite hin (and his wife) round if he has one, and order a takeaway,

[jennyjoan]

No matter what my neighbour/friend does for me I make sure I pay him because it makes me feel better when I next ask him. I would feel under compliment to him.

Many times he refuses but I insist and usually gives in.

[burlyshirley]

I have a male friend who does odd jobs for me and never wants any money from me, but he has an amazing sweet tooth, so I buy him either cake or chocolates, both of which he loves. I even bought him an Easter egg for a small job he did for me recently !

I think dog treats are a good idea too lb.

[jno]

yes, if he's clear he doesn't want money, don't bother but by all means give him something else instead.

Erm, not "personal services", I hasten to add, but wine or beer or similar might be acceptable.

[eve1974]

Cld you bake him something in return? A cake perhaps?

[Nieve]

Perhaps an Amazon Voucher in a Thank You card.

[choux]

What dog owner would ever turn down treats for their beloved? Nice idea, ladybirder.

Mind you, I have to say I feel sorry for your dog ;)

[ladybirder]

OK I've given him the treats for the dogs and he's well pleased. So sorted.
jno your suggestion wouldn't work, I'm female;-)
Choux - watch it - my dog loves me to bits.

[Peter Pedant]

yeah seems OK

[Mozz71]

Why not get him a bottle of malt (or whatever his favourite tipple is). It'll probably be more warmly received than cash.

[webbo3]

Have a look in his recycling box and see what he likes to drink.

[Paigntonian]

Better to have an easy conscience. Insist on the £30. You'll only worry.

[Paigntonian]

Re-reading other contributions and the bottle seems a better plan.

[ladybirder]

I did say @ 10.36 that booze was a big No.

[jno]

sorry, ladybirder, I didn't see that. Diet Coke then...

[Mamyalynne]

Glad you've got it sorted out and he's happy.

[ladybirder]

Yes, he's much nicer when he's happy!

[Mamyalynne]

Grand, I have a lovely neighbour who does odd errands and things for me - best to keep it cordial.

[Mozz71]

Apologies LB, I missed that. I'm sure other gifts are appropriate, such as the doggy treats you've already mentioned.