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thanks Mamy - that's the one -
In one fell swoop - altho it has taken months of preparation for renewal, passports, lots of pills. She had said but to be honest I couldn't believe her - said son-in-law was coming from America to bring her back to America - now that I didn't believe but there ya go it was true.
Guess what she has gone to America - guess how long - for 6 months.
I think her son couldn't cope anymore and was torturing his sister to try and help or do something about it.
So she went last Wednesday - as you know I had been down about two weeks previous and initially she was pretty confused but when I left she became much much better. Later that week my own sister rang and was saying about me being down and she (friend) - Jenny has been here in years.
She never rang goodbye - too confused, and I won't be ringing as after all she can't remember.
Do you any of you think this was a good move. The daughter and her sorta didn't have a great bond when they lived here. But there are 5 children (teens) who can give a hand (help). Do you think she'll be ok there.